Pulse of relationships - Interest levels.
What’s an “interest level”? Simply put its how much someone is interested in you. Think of it as a percentage scale.
One of the biggest mistakes men make with attraction and when in relationships is failing to notice and respond to changes in interest levels.
This is why a lot of men “suddenly” get dumped “out of the blue”.
It starts when we first see someone we like. We see a hot girl and start talking to her, but she doesn’t seem that interested in us. But we persist, and waste all night trying to “warm her up” instead of realising and gracefully exiting. instead we waste our time, her time and the opportunity to meet people who are interested in us.
There are many ways to gauge someone’s interest. Through body language - the way she looks at you and “invites” you over to talk to her.
When talking to her, its in the way she answers…is she just being polite, or is she really engaged in the conversation and adding to it. Is she looking at you, moving closer, touching you?
When you’re in a relationship together, how is she treating you? How much of your presence does she want? Is it increasing or decreasing?
Interest levels constantly fluctuate. Its critical to remember this. And its critical you monitor and respond to her interest levels (and your own!).
Then act accordingly.
Fail to do this and you may find yourself surprised when things come crashing down around you.
