Take the lead

Take the Lead!

“What should we get for dinner babe?”

“I don’t know, what do you want?”

You ever have this conversation with a woman? Of course you have! We all have.

Ever have it go around in circles?? Of course! We all have. We want her to be happy, and we want to make the right choice! But she just won’t tell us. Why won’t she just say what she wants!!!

Part of becoming a cut above man is listening well to women, and a cut above man knows she is telling you what she wants!

She wants you to decide. And when she says she doesn’t feel like that, she wants you to hold firm and stick to what you want.

Because men lead, and women want to follow a man who leads.

So from now on, whenever choices come up and your lady throws an “I don’t know, what do you think?” type question back at you, remember that she is telling you she wants you to decide. She wants you to lead. She wants your masculine energy to make a decision!

If it’s something trivial like dinner, don’t even tell her what you’re getting! Literally tell her “OK, go get ready, wear something casual” or if you are ready, grab her hand and say “OK babe, I got this”. Then go have whatever the fuck you want, and whenever she asks “where are we going?” tell her she will find out when you get there.

Your life will be a lot less complicated and she will be a little bit more impressed. And if she really really really didn’t want anything at all from where you took her, or she really really really hated it, next time that choice comes up, she might not play the lead me game and actually help you decide by saying “not that”.

But don’t count on it!

Oh, and don’t hate the player, it’s all just a game ;)

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